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Peter Holder, Relationship Counsellor, Birmingham, UK
Online Relationship Counselling

Non-monogamy can feel overwhelming - whether you're curious about opening up, already navigating multiple relationships, or trying to figure out why things aren't working the way you hoped.

You might be struggling to manage feelings that catch you off guard, like envy, anxiety or loneliness. You may have modelled your version of non-monogamy on someone else’s template and it just isn’t sitting right, making you feel like you’re failing at this. Maybe you're in established relationships and dealing with broken agreements/boundaries. 

Or perhaps you’re simply trying to understand what non-monogamy even means for you.

You're seeking clarity about what you want, confidence in how to get there, and skills to navigate the complexity that comes with doing relationships differently.

Relationship counselling can help. Together, we can figure out how.

ABOUT

HOW I HELP

Relationships can be difficult, and frankly for most of society non-monogamy is uncharted waters. You at times probably feel like you’re drowning. There’s a million examples of monogamy ‘done right’. Perhaps you literally don’t know anyone else in your social circle who is non-monogamous.
 

Having a non-monogamous counsellor means you’ll be listened to without judgement, and by someone with their own lived experience of doing relationships differently & making mistakes along the way. You won’t have to explain to me what a metamour is!

 

Wherever you are in your journey, relationship counselling with me offers a space to understand what's going wrong, unpick the stories influencing your relationship(s) and discover the resources you have to help create what you truly want & need.

© 2026 by Peter Holder - Relationship Counselling, Birmingham (UK), Offering Online Sessions.

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