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How to Find a Polyamory-Friendly Counsellor in Birmingham
This guide is for anyone in Birmingham looking for support that meets them where they actually are.

Peter Holder (MNCPS)
6 days ago5 min read


What Is Relationship Counselling?
If I ask you to imagine what a relationship counselling session looks like, what do you see? I’m pretty confident it’s a room with a couch (sofa, settee, whatever you call it) and two people plonked on it, possibly a bit of a gap between them, facing opposite a clipboard wielding counsellor. And you’d be right. Partly. There is indeed a counsellor. The rest is up for debate. There’s a reason I said relationship counselling and not couples counselling, though the two are often

Peter Holder (MNCPS)
Jan 135 min read


It's Okay To Ask
It's 2021. A crisp, late afternoon in the middle of August. We’re having a decent summer. There are people and their pets strolling through the park. And there I am, sitting on the grass in the shade, listening to the ring ring of a suicide helpline. Hold on. Wait. How did I get here? I was about to turn 30 and hadn't achieved anything I was told I was supposed to yet. I'd placed a world of expectation on my own shoulders and had not the foggiest clue how to make any of it a

Peter Holder (MNCPS)
Nov 19, 20253 min read
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